YOU ARE TOTALLY MISSING WHAT'S GOING ON

THIS WOMAN ACTUALLY LIKES YOU, AND YOU'RE
SCREWING IT ALL UP BY ACTING LIKE A NEEDY WUSS
BAG!

If you were closer, I'd slap you myself.

DUH!

Whew. Let me calm myself. As you know, I don't
usually get so worked up. That makes three
exclamation marks in one email, and I haven't even
started lambasting you proper yet. (What is
lambasting, anyway? And is that how you spell it?
It's such a great word. I really should look and
find out.)

OK, I'm calm.

NOW, let's have a little talk here...

The reason why this kind of situation bothers
me is at least twofold:

1) Because I've been in it myself about a
bazillion and a half times, and it sucks to be
screwing something up and not even realize that
you're doing it.

2) I can tell from your email that you actually
like this girl A LOT, and that she's probably a
fantastic woman... and I hate to see you working
so hard against yourself... and screwing this up
when it's right there in front of you for the
taking.

Before I tell you all the reasons why you most
DEFINITELY should invest in my Advanced Dating
Techniques program, let me give you a few pointers
that might help you STOP screwing this up in the
meantime.

OK, back to the basics.

Let's take this from the top...

At the very beginning of your email, you said
something that basically telegraphed EXACTLY what
was going on here...

You said "...I think I've met "the one," but
I'm having trouble making her realize this. I've
been pursuing her for about five months..."

You're having trouble making her REALIZE this?

You've been PURSUING her?

Do you assume that at some point within the
NEXT five months that she's going to wake up one
day and feel a powerful ATTRACTION for you because
you like to chase her around and tell her how you
feel about her?

Normally I'd make fun of you here, and tell you
that you don't get it... blah blah blah.

But for some reason I feel like I just have to
lay things out for you directly.

Look, man... the reason why she's telling you
that she "doesn't know why it hasn't evolved into
something romantic" is that she doesn't FEEL IT.

She doesn't FEEL IT.

Get it?

SHE DOESN'T FEEL IT!

She doesn't feel ATTRACTION for you.

And you can't CONVINCE her to feel it by
chasing her around and telling her how you "feel"
about her.

Attraction, as I always say, ISN'T A CHOICE.

You need to go and get yourself an IN-DEPTH
education on the topic of creating ATTRACTION.
Go read my new online eBook "Attraction Isn't A
Choice".

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show you how to communicate with women in a way
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you.

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(Note: these success stories are “raw”, unedited testimonials.)
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Hi Mr. Panzarella, im writing this email to express my gratitude with the material you have written in the smart dating course. I am a 19 year old British born Chinese youth who is now experience the fruits of labour when I came across your course, adopting your teachings and principles has now made me become a more confident and magnetically attractive male. Life is just flourishing so much for me now and I hand it down to your years of diligence and consistency of dwelling into this profession, just to give you an idea of whats been happening, yes the girls are loving the confidence, teasing and flirting!!! but most important the course has taught me to carve myself into a better person, provided me with the basic leadership skills, communicating, being attentive to everyone's thoughts and feelings. Life is great and touching my career and financial side ive set up a couple of small businesses and I am now currently on my way to be a market trader at a prestigious firm (sorry to boast, but this is what the results of your course has given me!).
Mr Panzarella again I thank you sincerely from the bottom of my heart and will continue to study your course till the day i die... I hope to keep in touch with you sir when I come across some situations or problems.
Till then take care yours sincerely,
Mikey C. (U.K.)
Marius,
I can’t stress it enough! I’ve learned so much from you. Buying the Ebook was a long term investment. My dating life its crazier than its ever been I always have girls calling me and trying to get with me and my friends that were natural players cant explain how I can be so smooth with the ladies. It is literally like magic. The girl friend stealer technique has worked every time it is actually very dangerous because I know have some pissed off guys that want to kick my ass, I love it. I love being in a night club and watching guys blow their money away getting girls drinks then see their faces when I walk over talk to the girls then turn to the guys and say “excuse me gentlemen” and walk away with the girl and holding her hand. I am writing this email to Thank you for writing that ebook and for the daily tips.
Thank my man

Ruben C from Seattle, WA
Holy Shit!! Your tips and books are off the hook, I finally really started
applying the stuff I have been reading and not only has my luck changed with
women, but I feel like I have my confidence back. For example there was this
hot smoking chick at the bar, I would never in a million years think I would
get her number. Well I grew some balls and followed the book asked for the
number and the chick threw the line at me: give me your number, and I told her
No(in a teasing voice),you won't call; give me yours and I will call you. She
was so shocked, that she smiled and said OK. I got a date next Wednesday.
Thanks Marius. You must be a communication major!!!!
- Rob @. From Phoenix, AZ
Ever since your book and the newsletters I’ve been out with a lot of girls at the start it was fun getting to know them and by following the steps you've outlined got laid too well raped is more like it. Eventually I got to realize that they were not my type basically as you would put it they were not feminine to me, had no dreams and wasn’t going no where with there lives and we hardly shared the same views on life.
The sex was great, wow! Mostly in cars, I’ve got to stop that get new hot spots anyway the good thing is I’m still good friends with most of them. I just never saw them as girl friend material. I even have this friend who wants to be more than a friend I’m seeing tomorrow again not girl friend material. Just my luck the type isn’t interested she does not see me on a daily basis and she does not even know that I’ve been out with other girls and flirting with them. As you could tell I don’t really give up. I go after what I want and in my life experiences this I’ve proven I get what I want. There is the hypnosis love.mp3. From the package during the recording he asks you to “visualize your prefect mate, how it feels to be in her presence.” This is very powerful. Guess u know who fits the description and of course who I want, can’t help that. I’ll have to think of a way to be seen flirting with other girls in front of her. Thanks for the reply and for listening.
Trini R. from the Caribbean island of Trinidad
You know what I did exactly what you said here the other night at a club to
a beautiful women following your advice and to my surprise she asked for my
number and was following me around in the club like a lost puppy lol!! I
Joked on her was sarcastic but flirty with her and she was eating out of my
hands in fact we spent the night together that same night! Please keep
your great advice coming you're every guys inspiration thanks.

I'm from South Carolina. Name is Rodney Darwin. I'm stationed in the Navy in
Guam and you can use my name it's ok thanks for the response!
Rodney Darwin, U.S. Navy
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Rule #108 - Know your swing and salsa dancing. Girls love to get twisted around.

Yup. And the classes are packed with hot women. Go try it if you can. You’ll probably have a great time!
Smart Dating Rule: Take dance classes.

Rule #107 - Know when to abandon ship if it ain't floating.

This is a rule that many men ignore. A true man should be strong enough to accept failure. If it is clear that things are not going to work out with a certain woman, admit it and look for another woman. You don’t need a certain woman to live.
If you do, you’ve got a big problem!
Smart Dating Rule: Know when to move on.

Rule #104 - Be well groomed and well-mannered.

Oh yeah. This one is so obvious it should be common sense for every man. Unfortunately, according to my experience, it’s not!
Smart Dating Rule: Be well-groomed and well-mannered.

Rule #99 - Be judicious with cologne. Citrus tones are best.

I wouldn’t say citrus tones are best, but I would say finding your own favorite cologne is important. Everybody has a different body chemistry so there’s no set cologne that works for everyone. Go to the department store and see which ones work best for you. Bring some girl friends to help you pick one if you have to.
Smart Dating Rule: Wear a nice cologne.

Rule #96 - Etiquette isn't old-fashioned. It's sexy.

Not only is etiquette is sexy, it’s mandatory! If you act like a gentleman and follow proper etiquette such as holding doors open for women, your charm factor will rise.
Smart Dating Rule: Follow good etiquette.

Rule #94 - Deep down, most people hate themselves. This knowledge is the key to most bedroom doors.

I wouldn’t call it the key to the bedroom door. But I do think it is very important for you to recognize the fact that most people do seek approval from others. If you can get a woman to seek your approval, she’s going to fall in love with you. You can do this by acting like a challenge and be being the one person who really understands her in this world.
Smart Dating Rule: Get people to seek your approval.
Smart Dating Rule: Be the only person that really understands a woman.

Rule #90 - Of course you dream of one day having children.

I agree with this one too. Nobody minds a man who likes children. Even the bad boy can have a little brat, you know.
Smart Dating Rule: Yes, you do want children one day. Key word: One day.

Rule #86 - Shoes say a lot about the man.

Definitely true. I would add, “Having a cool looking watch really helps too.” Women really look for things such as shoes when they check out a guy.
Smart Dating Rule: Wear nice shoes. Shoes make the men!

Rule #82 - Always think ahead but always stay in the moment. Reconcile this paradox and you'll not only get the girl, you might also get peace of mind

This one I agree with 100%. Whenever you’re with a woman, you should have a clear sense of where you would like to go with her. But at the same time, you should stay in the moment and just have fun. If you don’t have clear objectives, then your energy is going to drop and the conversation will just become fluff talk that leads nowhere. You won’t ever close her number or get a kiss from her. At the same time, if you focus too much on your expectations of the future, you may paralyze yourself, become inflexible, and ruin your game as a result.
With a little bit of experience, you can have both at the same time!
Smart Dating Rule: Have clear objections, but stay in the moment.

Rule #77 - Carry extra protection.

Smart Dating Rule: Always be protected

Rule #74 - In case of emergency, refer to the rulebook.

Whenever you get into doubts, use my “what would my role model do” technique.
Construct in your mind a perfect Smart Dater who knows what to do and what to say in every situation. Then whenever you get into a tough situation, disassociate yourself from the scenario and put your role-model in your shoes. Think about what your role-model would do if he were you. Then do the same.
I have used this technique to “cure” many guys with mental blocks when it comes to meeting women. It works very well. In fact, it even works in other areas of life such as sports and business.
Smart Dating Rule: Think about what Marius would tell you to do. Then DO IT.

Rule #73 - No excuses. Party like a champion.

My rule is to “Work hard and play even harder.” Act like a champion no matter what you’re doing. No excuses at all. Every man can do their best.
Here’s a little secret to life. Most people are NOT going to do their best in life. So if YOU go the extra mile and do your best, you’re going to have more success than the majority of the population, be it in school, sports, work, business, or dating.
Plus, men who really live life and both work and party had are justsexy to women!
Smart Dating Rule: Work hard, play even harder.

Rule #72 - Studies have shown that women have a more developed sense of smell. Breath mints - small cost, big yield.

Breath mints and cologne are good, but personally I think most pheromone products out there are scams. With that said, if they give you more confidence due to a placebo effect, then perhaps they are worth the money after all. Not that I would endorse any, of course.
Smart Dating Rule: Have good breath.

Rule #71 - Research, research, research the wedding party. And when you are done researching, research some more.

Learn, learn, and learn. But don’t just stop there. Practice, practice, and practice too. Confidence comes from competence, which comes from experience And the only way you can gain experience is through both knowledge and practice.
Smart Dating Rule: Learn, learn, learn. Practice, practice, practice.

Rule #70 - Two shutouts in a row? It's time to take a week off. Ask yourself: what is it that is getting in the way of my happiness?

My version of this rule is “If you keep hitting the same wall, take a break.” We are all humans and we DO burnout. If you keep on approaching and meeting women, no matter how much fun you are having, eventually you will feel tired and your success rate will drop. No problem. Simply take a small break and come back to the game refreshed in a few weeks.

Smart Dating Rule: If you keep hitting the same wall, take a break.

Rule #67 - Mix it up a little. You can't always be the man with the haunted past.

I would say, “Mix it up in general.”

Any move, technique, or strategy will become boring to a woman if you keep on using it. For example, if you use the same line every time a woman compliments you, you can bet it will get lame really fast. Learn to mix things up a little and be creative!
Smart Dating Rule: Mix it up or it will get boring.

Rule #66 - Smile! You're having the time of your life.

I agree with this one completely. There are some dating coaches who believe it is bad to smile. I think that is absolutely silly. Look at all the charming people out there in the real world and one thing you’ll notice is that they always look happy in public.
And here’s the thing…if you LOOK like you’re having the time of your life, then people, not just women, will THINK you’re having the time of your life, which means they will want to join you and become part of it too!
Smart Dating Rule: Smile and act confident.

Rule #56 - Don't fixate on one woman. ALWAYS have a back-up.

There is always a woman who is just as good as the one you’re going after. You may not believe me, but one day you will - when you meet the NEXT woman you’re CRAZY about!
Smart Dating Rule: There’ll always be another woman.

Rule #49 - Always work into the conversation: "Yeah, I have tons of money. But how does one buy happiness?"

This one is very interesting. Note how the line talks about wealth indirectly. The focus on the line is on happiness, which allows the guy to talk about his wealth without being showy. This is the best way to reveal someone about yourself. Also note the philosophical question. Once you have built basic rapport with a woman, asking such philosophical questions can often help you deepen the rapport.
Smart Dating Rule: Show, not tell.
Smart Dating Rule: Ask philosophical questions when building rapport.

Rule #46 - The Rules of Wedding Crashing are sacred. Don't sully them by "improvising."

My version of this rule is, “Do not improvise on the philosophy of the Smart Dating Course, but do try to be creative with the techniques.”
The philosophy and rules of my course are going to save you from making terrible mistakes. Compromise on them, and you will make mistakes.
The individual techniques, however, are just examples. Use them as a guideline to create your own techniques.
Smart Dating Rule: Do not improvise on the Smart Dating philosophy, but do try to be creative with the individual techniques.

Rule #44 - Create an air of mystery that involves some painful experience when interacting with the girl you're after. But don't talk about it.

Obviously, this rule meant to be a joke. However, this is a certain amount of truth to it. Having an air of mystery around you does help make women become intrigued by you.
Smart Dating Rule: Be mysterious, but not aloof or strange.

Rule #39 - The way to a woman's bed is through the dance floor.

My version of this rule is “take dance classes.” Not only will you learn how to dominate the floor, there are many girls in any dance class so you will meet tons of women as well.
Smart Dating Rule: Take Dance Classes.

Rule #36 - Your favorite movie is "The English Patient".

Find a sensitive, artsy film to be your favorite movie, and you’ll give the women yet another reason to love you. Of course, you’ll actually have to do your homework and know the movie well. Know the best parts and the best lines. See if you can turn any of it into a routine. For example, for Shakespeare in Love you can tie it in with your knowledge of Shakespeare and talk about the part of the movie where Shakespeare twirls Viola around to undress her.
If the woman hasn’t seen your favorite movie, invite her to watch it with you. If she has, see if she wants to watch it again anyway.

Rule #29 - Always be a team player. Everyone needs a little help now and again.

I’d actually change this to one to “always be a leader. Everyone will need your help now and then.” The more you act like the alpha wolf of your pack and take care of your guys, the more social proof you will build. The more social proof you build, the more confidence you’ll get. And the more confidence you have, the more girls you’ll get!

Smart Dating Rule: Act like a leader.

Rule #27 - Don't over drink. The machinery must work in order to close.

Having a drink or two is okay because it will help you blend in and relax. But if you need alcohol to boost your confidence, then you’re drinking for the wrong reason.

Leave the heaving binging for when you’re with your buddies. Stay sober when you’re trying to score.

Smart Dating Rule: Don’t get drunk.

Rule #21 - Definitely make sure she's 18.

This one is obvious. Always make sure you’re not doing anything that could land you in jail. I *have* seen it happen!

Smart Dating Rule: Make sure she is legal. Male sure she is legal. Make sure she is legal.

Rule #20 - Always have an early "appointment" the next morning.

This is properly a joke referring to guys who find lame excuses to leave a woman’s place after a one-night stand. But to the Smart Dater, it’s similar to one of my rules, “Always end a date early”. This way, you will leave before the energy drops and your date will long for another date.

Just when the first date is going really well, call it a night. You’ll almost be certain to get a second date then!

Smart Dating Rule: End dates early.

Rule #19 - Toast in the native language if you know the native language and have practiced the toast. Do not wing it

I would change this one to “be curious about a woman’s native culture without showing ignorance.” For example, a lot of guys who hit on Asian girls actually offend them by saying lines such as, “Where did you learn to speak English?”

A good way to not be ignorant is to study other cultures. Learn some basic words in different languages if you can – and make sure you can pronounce the words properly!
Smart Dating Rule: Be curious about other cultures without showing ignorance.

Rule #18 - You love animals and children.

I would add “respect the elderly” to this list. Men who love animals and children and respect the elderly prove they have the potential to be a good long term mate.

Furthermore, playing with animals or children can teach you how to be playful when you are around women!

Smart Dating Rule: Love animals and children; Respect the elderly.

Rule #11 - Sensitive is good.

This one is one that not many guys truly understand. Nice guys think it means “being nice” to a woman and doing whatever she asks. Player-wannabes think it’s just a big no-no to be sensitive at all. But the Smart Dater knows that being sensitive doesn’t require acting like a wimp. All it takes is opening your ears and eyes and notice what is going on with a woman. You can still flirt, you can still tease, and you can definitely still act like a challenge. Being sensitive just means being more aware of details when you are with a woman and understanding her needs. (Note: It doesn’t mean you have to give her what she wants. It only means you have to understand what she wants. Whether you choose to give it or not is a different story.)

Smart Dating Rule: Be aware of details.

Rule #8 - Be the life of the party.

This one is important. If you are the life of the party, you can stop and end conversations at any time. You can also lead or intercept group conversations. This is very important if you want to isolate a woman and lead her away from the group. Also, by being the life of the party, you will automatically raise your social proof.

Rule #7 - Blend in by standing out.

I would change this rule to “blend in and stand out.” Although it sounds like a paradox, it’s not. You blend in enough to have a good time and not appear to be a freak. But at the same time, you have a bigger personality than the other guys so that you emerge as the alpha male and draw attention to yourself from the girls.

It applies to how you dress too. Don’t dress up in a suit when everybody is wearing casual clothes. Blend in by wearing a similar style as everybody else. But at the same time, wear something special such as a nice pair of shoes or a special watch or hat so that you will stand out.

Rule #6 - Do not sit in the corner and sulk. It draws attention in a negative way. Draw attention to yourself, but on your own terms.

I partly agree with this rule. In real life, sitting in the corner won’t draw attention to you. In fact, women are just going to ignore you since there’re so many other guys and things that are interesting to them in the room. You can’t just sit there and expect women to come hit on you. You have to go socialize with them yourself.

Rule #5 - Never let a girl get between you and a fellow Crasher.

I think we can change the words from “fellow Crasher” to “friend.” As I always say, “women come, women go, but best friends are for life.” You should never let a woman come between you and a buddy. Of course, it works both ways. Just like you should never hit on your friends’ girls, your friends should also understand that your girlfriend or crush is yours. If they constantly try to hit on your crush instead of helping you get her, then you really need better friends.

1. Make up a killer profile! This is the most important part of Internet Dating. Fortunately MOST people put little effort into this. This gives YOU the opportunity to STAND OUT from the crowd. It's a chance for you to say who you are and what you are looking for. and It will directly affect the response / replies you get. Also the type / quality of people that respond.

2. You must have a good quality, recent photo.

3. Make your profile stand out by being interesting and FUNNY!

4. Don't make if brief, more is better.

5. Be happy, honest and friendly.

6. Chose a catchy username / handle.

7. Humour is the key to your profile!

8. Write short, interesting sentences.9. Bad things for your profile Don't bitch and moan about ex-partners or wives ! Make sure all spelling and grammar is correct. * Don't pretend you are someone or something you are not. * Don't lie about your age or anything else. [I know it's tempting] :- ] * No photo. [Don't bother if you are not putting up a photo] * Don't mention any bad traits or habits of your own. * Don't say you are attractive or great in bed . ;- ] * Don't be scantily dressed.

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