THIS WOMAN ACTUALLY LIKES YOU, AND YOU'RE
SCREWING IT ALL UP BY ACTING LIKE A NEEDY WUSS
BAG!
If you were closer, I'd slap you myself.
DUH!
Whew. Let me calm myself. As you know, I don't
usually get so worked up. That makes three
exclamation marks in one email, and I haven't even
started lambasting you proper yet. (What is
lambasting, anyway? And is that how you spell it?
It's such a great word. I really should look and
find out.)
OK, I'm calm.
NOW, let's have a little talk here...
The reason why this kind of situation bothers
me is at least twofold:
1) Because I've been in it myself about a
bazillion and a half times, and it sucks to be
screwing something up and not even realize that
you're doing it.
2) I can tell from your email that you actually
like this girl A LOT, and that she's probably a
fantastic woman... and I hate to see you working
so hard against yourself... and screwing this up
when it's right there in front of you for the
taking.
Before I tell you all the reasons why you most
DEFINITELY should invest in my Advanced Dating
Techniques program, let me give you a few pointers
that might help you STOP screwing this up in the
meantime.
OK, back to the basics.
Let's take this from the top...
At the very beginning of your email, you said
something that basically telegraphed EXACTLY what
was going on here...
You said "...I think I've met "the one," but
I'm having trouble making her realize this. I've
been pursuing her for about five months..."
You're having trouble making her REALIZE this?
You've been PURSUING her?
Do you assume that at some point within the
NEXT five months that she's going to wake up one
day and feel a powerful ATTRACTION for you because
you like to chase her around and tell her how you
feel about her?
Normally I'd make fun of you here, and tell you
that you don't get it... blah blah blah.
But for some reason I feel like I just have to
lay things out for you directly.
Look, man... the reason why she's telling you
that she "doesn't know why it hasn't evolved into
something romantic" is that she doesn't FEEL IT.
She doesn't FEEL IT.
Get it?
SHE DOESN'T FEEL IT!
She doesn't feel ATTRACTION for you.
And you can't CONVINCE her to feel it by
chasing her around and telling her how you "feel"
about her.
Attraction, as I always say, ISN'T A CHOICE.
You need to go and get yourself an IN-DEPTH
education on the topic of creating ATTRACTION.
Go read my new online eBook "Attraction Isn't A
Choice".
This book will take you "behind the scenes" and
show you how to communicate with women in a way
that TRIGGERS the attraction... instead of trying
to be a "nice guy" and CONVINCE her to feel it for
you.
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