I would change this rule to “blend in and stand out.” Although it sounds like a paradox, it’s not. You blend in enough to have a good time and not appear to be a freak. But at the same time, you have a bigger personality than the other guys so that you emerge as the alpha male and draw attention to yourself from the girls.
It applies to how you dress too. Don’t dress up in a suit when everybody is wearing casual clothes. Blend in by wearing a similar style as everybody else. But at the same time, wear something special such as a nice pair of shoes or a special watch or hat so that you will stand out.
